18 - Luor- Respect - Friday, 28 February 2003

No. 18 
Luor- Respect 
Friday, 28 February 2003 

Dear Amare-Amuri, 

Question- How do the Luo people show respect to their elders in daily life? 

The Luo people, an ethnic group primarily found in Kenya, Uganda, and Tanzania, have rich cultural traditions for showing respect to their elders. Here are some ways the Luo demonstrate respect in daily life: 

  

1. Greetings: Younger people are expected to greet elders first, often with a handshake or a slight bow of the head. Special greetings are used for elders to show respect. 

  

2. Language and Titles: The Luo use respectful language when addressing or referring to elders. Titles like "Jaduong'" (meaning elder or respected person) are commonly used. 

  

3. Seating Arrangements: Elders are given the most honored seats during gatherings and events. Younger people will often stand until all elders are seated. 

  

4. Listening and Obedience: It is customary to listen attentively and follow the advice and instructions of elders without interruption or argument. 

  

5. Offering Help: Younger members of the community often assist elders with daily tasks, such as fetching water, cooking, or carrying heavy loads. 

  

6. Eating Etiquette: During meals, elders are usually served first, and the best portions of food are given to them. 

  

7. Cultural and Ritual Participation: Respect for elders is also shown by involving them in important cultural and family rituals, such as weddings, funerals, and naming ceremonies. Elders often lead these events and perform key roles. 

  

8. Gift Giving: Giving gifts to elders, especially during significant occasions like festivals or visits, is a common practice to show respect and appreciation. 

  

9. Conflict Resolution: Elders often mediate disputes and conflicts within the community. Younger members show respect by accepting their decisions and judgments. 

  

10. Avoiding Offensive Behavior: Behaviors considered disrespectful, such as using foul language or showing anger, are avoided in the presence of elders. 

  

These practices are deeply ingrained in Luo culture and help maintain social harmony and the transmission of cultural values from one generation to the next. 

All my love, 
Mama